Victims are most likely to be at risk from people they know.
Violent attack, inside or outside the home, is a criminal offence. Nobody has the right to abuse you physically, sexually or emotionally. Victims may be made to feel responsible and guilty for the abuse. The decision to take action against the abuser may be a difficult one, but it is important to remember that you do not have to suffer in silence.
In the short term
You can plan emergency measures:-
Talk to a neighbour you trust – maybe arrange a signal, and ask them to contact the police if they hear a disturbance in your home. You may even feel more comfortable if an overnight bag is packed, with enough money for petrol and a phone card, and if possible, money for at least one night’s bed and breakfast or arrange to stay with a friend or relative you trust.
Take extra keys for the house or car; a change of clothes for yourself and your children and a list of emergency phone numbers. You could leave this with a friend, or at your workplace.
If you can, take any legal or financial papers which you might need, along with any treasured personal possessions, favourite toys for the children and any medicines you may require.
In the longer term
There are organisations who are there to help and support you while you decide what choices you want to make for the longer term.
Darlington Mobile Advice Co-operative
Other organisations offering practical advice and support
You can get legal advice from a solicitor. If you pursue the case against your attacker, there are a number of possible legal outcomes, ranging from court injunctions, and possibly to a criminal conviction and custodial sentence.
Remember that domestic abuse is a crime and can be dealt with through the police and courts. You should report any violent attack to the police, who can help you. Many police forces now have dedicated domestic abuse units, which are staffed by specially trained officers who will tell you what help is available, and will support you in whatever you wish to do.
Help from the Police
Durham Constabulary work in partnership with all of the other agencies who are involved with those who are or have been victims of domestic abuse, this cuts out any delays and allows those who need help to receive it quickly.
Durham Constabulary’s strategy towards domestic violence always puts the victim first and working in partnership with those who specialise in this field gives us a greater understanding of the needs and concerns of the victims.
As a crime Reduction Officer I can become involved at anyone’s request I will provide a full home security survey and give advice on window locks, door locks and alarms would make the home a safer place.
On receiving a request from any one of the partners I can also fit specialist police alarms for victims which ensure that they have instant contact and response from the police should they need it.
You don’t have to be a victim to request a home security survey, all of the dedicated beat officers in Darlington have been trained to give security advice free of charge.
I can be contacted through Darlington Police office on 01325 346824 or 0845 60 60 365
PC Steve Rich Crime Reduction Officer